i am asking..u should answer

question: why do people who love you, hurt you the most? answer 1 : It's not really that the loved ones are HURTING you the most, theyre probably hurting you just as much as any other person would, but the fact that you LOVE them, makes it hurt more . answer 2: You hurt the ones you love the most because you aren't scared they will stop loving you. Human nature is kind of a bummer that way. answer 3: Ask yourself this, would you be hurt if a stranger randomly tells you something nasty or would you be more hurt if that person calling you names is your bestfriend? Those whom you love are the closest to you, thereby, giving them the capacity to hurt you...sometimes unknowingly and sometimes, at will. Maybe they just don't know that they hurt you because they didn't know they were important enough to you to have caused you such pain.